Earlier today whilst cleaning with a friend we were discussing various different things going on in her life now that I had gone through some 18-19 years (a lunar nodal cycle) ago. She is a Leo sun and fellow Scorpio rising like I am.
When we had first met I had done her chart and had discovered “what we shared” meaning what it is that is in both her karma and mine. This is one of my “morbid specialties” it’s a skill I have which is completely useless. Anyway I digress, I had realised that she had also partnered with a narcissist who she had four children with, everyone locally knew him as a hard working family man..he wasn’t. He was an overbearing, control freak with a bag of mother related issues that he projected on anyone willing to be projected onto. I get this ditto my ex, my two eldest two girls father. In her line also the women tend to either “ shag off “ with their bosses or tradesmen (kitchen fitters seems to be the favourite variety)
She appeared at my table at 40 with transit Uranus opposing natal Leo Uranus in her first house..well NO she wasn’t happy with the status quo and was having it off with the kitchen fitter..I should say over the next month I had three more women appearing seemingly out of nowhere in pure Uranus fashion doing exactly the same..whilst at the same time transit Uranus made a perfect square in my chart to my own natal Venus.
I think they saved me the trouble! As well as that I love – Venus- astrology- Uranus.
One day not long after I met her and had found this out I had a blinding insight- ZAP- him again you get it. I had been taken back in time 18-19 years ago to my best friend who I had met in infant school she was also a Leo sun. We were friends for years and she had also married an old bloke just like her dad the same as this other woman. Needless to say she was also having it off with the kitchen fitter, I was horrified as she had two young children as well as that they were doing it in her marriage bed whilst her husband was at work.

I said to her one day “ he’s married you know and he ain’t going to leave his wife for you”. She said she knew this and was in it for the hell of it. At that point I said to her you are mad doing this at home, here have the keys to my place, I’m out all day, use the spare room. I didn’t condone it but could see this was just a stupid passing phase and not someone who was worth spoiling a marriage over. I know exactly when it was as my current husband and I had just met and he was “ horrified “ as his first wife also “shagged off” with quite a few tradesmen- plural- as he has Pluto, Uranus and Jupiter in his conjunction in his sixth house, she did a massive – Jupiter- sex taboo- Pluto- in Uranus- shocking style.
I had to console him as he was not ok with what he saw as my “duplicity”.
Well this woman now in my life (let’s call her Kitchen fitter) I had offered her the keys to an empty house I had that was under renovation for EXACTLY the same reasons as the girl I knew from my former infant school.
That’s not just the lunar nodes that’s Saturn asking me if I am happy with my own behaviour and am I going to do it any different this time around. Well no actually I am not .

Later on in time my infant friends marriage failed, she rang me as she knew I had some property and it was local, she asked me if her soon to be ex husband who was good at home renovation and decorating could rent one that was currently empty cheap in return for his labour. Sounded like a good idea but in reality it wasn’t as what she thought was cheap wasn’t as it did not even cover my expenses. A friendship ended over a Mercury (local area) misunderstanding and how much was or wasn’t cheap? or fair.(so Venus is involved as well) Right on que this morning as kitchen fitter and me chatted and cleaned she explained that her new beau who had been living rent free in return for his labour would you believe, was about to end his agreed rental free period and was looking to vacate so she could move in with her four kids. He therefore was looking for somewhere else and sure enough in congruence with one of my previous posts I have one perfect house available, of course we had since decided to gut it as my new foreign tenants had changed their minds last weekend and broken their new contract not a week in. Sure enough its now getting a kitchen and bathroom fitted. It had to be this way. As the universe has pressed re do and Saturn- land and property- business- is in my stellium along with Mercury, Mars and more than a few others.
WTF do I do? As as you know whatever I decide now will likely change as Mercury will also go will back direct.
This universe is simply unbelievable as 18-19 years ago we had bought 11 properties and had renovated them all as well as that many many years earlier my own father as a child had been evicted 11 times over eleven years…