I had recently discovered a book written by Brian Clark, an astrologer, called the sibling constellation. He had continued and proven my many theories and musings about what I had discovered myself regarding my own sibling /cousin/aunts relationships and how / if I had learnt to relate through them .If not, had I learnt how to relate whilst in my early school life – more third house/ Geminis house.As well as that, what did I find or learn exactly ?Were my sibling relationships peaceful and harmonious?Did we get on with our cousins and aunts? And What about the neighbours?

As the relationship houses (3-7-11) are all connected by 120 degrees and fill up the 360 degree zodiac they are all interlinked, as what we learn well or not so well in our third house (Gemini’s house) we can expect to re visit in our marriage or partnerships – the 7 th house. This is where we either attract positive, loving relationships or sometimes not. Whatever energetics were at play in our early sibling relationships we will meet.

For example my elder sister was favoured over me, I felt I was less valued. She was academic, was able to exhibit her intellect whereas I was always rebellious, unable to learn mainstream subjects in the usual way. I did not shine at school and was overlooked. As I grew up and started dating I realised now, only in hindsight that I always partnered men who were the outcasts – the rebellious ones – like myself or latterly the favoured ones. Clearly I did not do this on purpose. All this went on at tissue level; my vibration attracted these partners as on that level we matched. Hmm, how very interesting.

Next I realised that having learnt how to relate in Gemini’s house – the third and transferred this learning into Libras house- equal partnerships- the seventh next we go to the 11 th house – friends and groups – Aquarius’s house. This is where it blows my mind, as what I found was simply unbelievable. I have Virgo on my 11 th house cusp and all of my life have attracted healers and psychics as friends …even before I knew I was one myself. This explains how I was not mainstream, right back in that Gemini – early school I did not learn like most others, it’s only now I understand my Uranus (astrology) planet was at play, as the natural ruler of the 11th, of course I could not / would not conform.

Many years ago, in fact when I was just 18 my first (and only) lifelong friend was a clairvoyant. There were many more who have this skill set who as yet have not accepted their gifts. They are all suffering from invisible ‘leaky’ illnesses like M.E ,fibromyalgia, MS, Tourette’s, stuttering, ADHD, Aspergers, Anxiety. These are all ‘Gemini problems’ they all affect movement or mobility, sometimes that’s the movement in the physical body but alternatively it affects the thought processes, the speech or the ability to process / learn information. The psychic energy does simply disappear – Neptune ( it would be nice) if it did but that would defy laws of physics.  Newton had discovered every action has an equal but opposite reaction. So we can expect psychic energy to act no differently. Just because it is invisible does not mean it is not there or doesn’t exist. Nobody disputes other invisible energies such as love, depression or anxiety. These are all from the planets…they speak and connect with us in many ways…