I had become enlightened recently to do with the Sabian symbol 24 Cancer, it’s meaning of “triangulation“ within relationships – three- one being too many, and how every one I meet is “doing “ one end of it or the 24 Capricorn polar opposite end now. As the transiting lunar nodes are approaching this degree in the cosmos soon, currently being on 26 degrees and travelling retrograde as they do, these issues are coming up now for review, to be acknowledged, healed and let go of.
This degree is just one of the 360 in the zodiac but it is all my family’s birth charts, sometimes it’s not there but it’s polar opposite is. (like it’s the elephant in the room!) This tells of the role each person will likely play out, not always though as some people have evolved through its teaching but may still receive it back from the other persons polar opposite degree.) I am getting this as this is the story of my own third house and how I learnt to relate with my sibling. Getting my ex as a partner partly because we were supposed to work through this together, we didn’t as I left when he moved his son, who was then seventeen into my house without as much as a conversation about how this would be successfully achieved and how we were supposed to do this “together” despite him not being able to come home from the pub on his way home from work due to the fact that our baby would not be in bed until seven o clock and he may have to of waited for my attention. (Tri ) need I say any more?

This 24 Cancer Sabian reared it’s ugly head again and I was the one who moved out. This played out in many different scenarios of tri with his Venus that I have described. Noting that if favouritism was found in the third house of siblings within the birth chart, relationships no matter who was favoured as children, then this would come up with friends- 11 th house as well as partners -7th house, this combined with 24 Cancer Venus /12 th house- lol – has played out sometimes with him being the chosen one but equally- Venus rules Libra as well remember- with him being the one favoured over, there are even cases where he – the 24 Cancer person was on the receiving end of his Venus- partner having three in a bed. I jest not, this is all true, she chose neither but tri(ed) yet again and the marriage ended.

I remember his very first marriage, he left that one for another woman -tri. There was confusion (Venus in Neptunes house) with Venus being sensual and feminine, where exactly did motherhood start? Cancer being mothers as well, it seemed once I had had our baby and breastfed it he thought my breasts were no longer Venus -sensual.( a re run of what happened with his first wife).Venus in the twelfth in this case was further confused in this manner by a square to Ceres which reinforced the split between women and their dual role as mothers/ nurturers and sex objects.
He simply could not share– Libra- me as his Venus – with our child.
This same sorry scenario has blighted every relationship he has ever had to date and he is now seventy. After I had long since left he continued to tell me all about his love life (?) Seems to me that now in hindsight the universe in its ultimate wisdom showed me, gave me, all this information which since getting into astrology I would need for my endless Plutonium forays..
After the three in a bed-tri– they got divorced, he had a brief fling with a married woman-tri – I do believe he cared for her but unfortunately she had a child- tri, that was not going to work and he knew it,(he was still wanting a mother)🤮. Further along in time he had his ex (three in the bed) back but that never really worked but they were still co dependent – the deal was she -Venus-liked money and we know this as astrologers about the money connection with Venus, he was the older man and despite her relieving him of half the house, his savings, and half the pension, she still appreciated- Venus- the further security- more Venus -that he offered, in return of course for sex- they aborted their baby -as that would have been tri– but she cooked – Cancer- the dinner and cleaned the home again. Alas this did not last as Saturn came a knocking, it was 14 years since she had outed his son-tri- as three was a crowd. This time it was our daughter, as I had left him when she was one it was a Saturn return of sorts..
His Leo rising had been triggered- the hero– he offered her a home- despite not seeing her for five years as he just could not be bothered, the home he promised her of course could not last-as you know dear reader of the tri going on- but she would not come home and tell me that she had made a terrible mistake- at 15 who would. The step mother tri(ed) her utmost to get rid of her of but at the time I didn’t know it, as we had been ostracised, he could not share our daughter with me (third house again) although I had shared her and her sister with him after I had left. The step mother had made her life pure hell, even at one point starving her out of their home with utter neglect as well as what I would call beyond cruelty, more emotional control of which the father chose to ignore.(or not believe as his little Venus was pure as the driven snow) She did not succeed though, my daughter has got too much of me in her (stubbornness and a dollop of self sabotage) for her to admit defeat and march on home. She was not tri(ed) but she sure got Saturn tested, she was determined she would not quit- sometimes this is her downfall, she did her 24 Capricorn and 27 Capricorn placement and stayed too long- when she did not leave- disappear- Neptune -fast-Uranus, the step mother took this role.

 She had become tri(ed) and she then exited fast and left them. Shortly after, like a few days later he, my ex appeared with another woman,(tri) it’s not even funny, this really happened, but this time the woman who was nearer his own age was childless, this one had real potential,he gets mothered at last, lol, poor woman thought she was getting a partner. I can relate, that had been me, many years earlier.
Needless to say although it had seemed to have been working or so my daughter tells me, it didn’t as (three in a bed) came back and tri transpired again. Mommy had called. Dinners ready, and off he had trotted. So tri kicked off again, but as this triangulated episode where new shiny Venus was outed by Venus of old it still left a tri, meaning my daughter in the mix.

Not for long though as Venus in Cancer 24 degrees – homes- it was something his Venus (3 in a bed) had not tri(ed) before. If you can’t get the daughter out of his house best and only remaining option would be to part exchange it for a new shiny one three hours south and leave her behind.
It happened. They left her behind (stuck her in a rented flat) as she was just starting her A levels and it was put to her that she must finish them!
Poof – that Venus in the twelfth- her father and his “mommy”- Cancer- had ran away- done a Neptune- poof gone. ( this was my daughters 24 Capricorn 27 Capricorn Neptune /Uranus conjunction in her third that she had received). This all has its roots in his third house relationship with his younger sibling, a sister, who he never forgave his mother for having when he was seven years old. He was favoured by his mother as she appreciated-Venus- the way he had learned how to be a “ perfect little boy” as they are both Virgo’s they share this critical and divisive side to Virgo and they vented it together in partnership- Venus- the sibling- the tri btw- was unfavoured by default, don’t forget his 24 Cancer triangulation Sabian symbol meaning , as this is the root cause of his whole life errors to do with relating, and so far this theme continues to roll on down our respective ancestral lines, resting with my daughter for now.